AGT host Terry Crews has been married to his wife Rebecca King Crews for almost 30 years. Earlier this week, he appeared on The View, where he shared what he thinks is the secret to a successful relationship. You might want to take notes.
Terry started out by admitting that he and Rebecca have “made all the mistakes,” adding, “We’ve lost homes, we’ve lost children, we’ve broke up, we’ve got back together.” He says that all of it has made them “realize what’s really important.”
Terry Talks About Blame
Terry then got a little philosophical, sharing his belief “every man, at some time in his life, is either a fool, a victim, or a king.” He admitted that he was initially a fool, and then he became a victim, blaming his wife for things. “The king stage is when you realize everything good and bad in your life is your responsibility,” he explained.
“All healing, all regeneration of a marriage, of a life, starts from you admitting your own faults,” he continued. Co-host Joy Behar jumped in to point out that this doesn’t just apply to men. She said when she took the blame “for my end” after her divorce, she could move on, adding that you’re doomed to repeat your mistakes if you don’t take responsibility.
Who Is Terry Crews Wife?
Rebecca King Crews is an American actress, Singer- songwriter and TV personality. She gained national fame when BET ran a popular reality series The Family Crews, featuring her family with her husband Terry. Rebecca relaunched her singing career under the name Regina Madre and released two singles, I Keep Holding On and Destiny.
Terry Crews’ Porn Addiction Secret
Terry has been open about his marriage struggles in the past. That includes admitting he had an addiction to pornography, and attending therapy. “I had to change because I realized this thing is a major, major problem,” he reportedly said in a 2014 Facebook video. In an interview with Dr. Phil, Terry and Rebecca spill the beans on that episode of their relationship when she foud out about his addiction to porn [see video]
In 2015, Terry also shared that he and his wife participated in a 90-day “sex fast,” explaining how it changed their marriage. “I found that at the end of that 90 days … I knew who she was, and it wasn’t about ‘Let’s go out because I know I’m gonna get some sex later,’” he said. “It was like, ‘Let’s go because I want to talk to you. I want to know you.'”
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